Marriage isn’t just about two people—it’s a covenant with God, a reflection of our relationship with Christ. A strong marriage doesn’t happen by chance; it requires daily commitment, selflessness, and intentionality. Here are some key takeaways from our recent marriage encounter to help you strengthen your relationship, whether you’re married, engaged, or preparing for the future.
1. Lay Down Your Life
Marriage is not about getting—it’s about giving. Just as Christ laid down His life for us (John 15:13), we are called to selflessly love and serve our spouse. It’s not 50/50, but 100/100, requiring constant adjustment, listening, and choosing love every single day.
2. Stay Connected: Be Best Friends
The greatest threat to marriage isn’t conflict—it’s disconnection. Busyness, distractions, and complacency slowly erode intimacy. Make time to laugh, talk, and intentionally invest in your relationship. Friendship is the foundation that keeps love alive (Proverbs 17:17).
3. Speak Life Over Your Marriage
Your words have the power to build up or tear down (Proverbs 18:21). Encourage your spouse daily—speak words of affirmation, appreciation, and belief. Small words of kindness can create a lasting impact in your relationship.
4. Protect What God Has Given You
A strong marriage requires guarding your heart, time, friendships, finances, and home. Keep Christ at the center (Ecclesiastes 4:12), set healthy boundaries, and surround yourself with people who strengthen, not weaken, your commitment.
5. Never Stop Trying
Marriage is work, but it’s worth it. Keep talking, laughing, serving, and praying together. Whether you’re in a great season or a struggling one, trust that God is for your marriage. If you need restoration, His grace is always available.
